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Raining babies

It’s been a quiet year of travel, stateside, for both slaDE and myself … Last year, we were over there almost every weekend, skydiving of course. However, today’s gathering was to celebrate the upcoming birth of Michael Anthony, son of Lisa (Whitmire) and Mike Maly. It’s has been absolute ages since I’ve been to a baby shower … Perhaps 20 years? The gathering of women was large as was the booty of gifts. WOW. The table was FILLED with lovely useful items for the newly budding family, reminiscent to that which one would receive at a wedding ceremony. Incredible really how things have changed since my last shower experience. However, Lisa is so well loved and admired and respected, I’m not REALLY that surprised at people’s generosity. My little Koala bear backpack stuffed full of clothing seemed small in comparison. But I must admit, the photo of slaDE tandeming the Koala (prior to the party) was priceless!

And wow, the blanket that Linda Gath knitted for Michael is stunning and oh so cre8tive. I admire her diligence and efforts!

Of course, all of our favourite skydiving girlfriends were in attendance (except for Laura and Debbie … you were missed!).
Sandy, Carol, Kelly, Diane, and Linda all looked beautiful. It was so delightful to catch up with these lovely ladies. Apart from the skydiving, this is what I miss most, our Frontier family of friends (FFOF — this could also mean freak flyers of Frontier ;) , but hey, we’re not all freaKS).

It was so nice to see Lisa’s Mom and pregnant sister Tracy (both Lisa’s sisters are pregnant, due within 3 months of each other! Howse that for timing?!). Michael’s Mom looked really wonderful and youthful. Her first grandchild … Lovely.

We spent the evening hanging out with Lisa’s family back at their new house. Of course, it being winter, we had to reminisce and watch skydiving videos … The itch was starting (or has been, for me, for a while now). I had a peak at my stored parachute (one can dream) … Lisa is storing all my cool skydiving pictures and my rig whilst I travel … they might as well be useful to someone!

It was late, so we drove over to Sandy’s and spent the rest of our time hanging out with her and Tad. Life is treating us well … It’s so good to have the world be content and at peace, even if just in this moment.

surfing the web of sexiness and desire

Have you ever had one of those days where you felt completely and utterly blah? I’m not speaking about the typical feelings of mal-tempered health, but rather, experiencing the consciousness where one’s ego is taking a (self-imposed) beating with the truly unnerving squelching of any semblance of positiveness and sexiness.

Well today, I’m faced with one of those days. But refusing to get stuck in the wallowing mire of shameful self-pity, I did some research into ways of digging my way out. Who to turn to? Well, Oprah of course.

She writes:

The heart of sexual energy is making others feel beautiful, wanted, clever, charming, making them see themselves in the warm, pink light of our unembarrassed attention and allowing some of the flattering light to fall on ourselves, our strong points and our frank interest. …. It is embracing the world and the people in it; it is embracing desire and attraction as sources of pleasure rather than shame, and appreciating what we have to offer as well as what they, the lucky objects of our desire, do.

Now here’s a chance to turn my own sullen presence and state-of-mind into a positive. What a present I found in my stumbled surfings today! Looks like my honey is in for a treat this evening :) .